uke wa mwanamama sexy

Njia 5 za kutambua kama una UKE mpana/mkubwa: Kuna wanawake wengi huwa wanashindwa kujua kama uke wao ni mpana au mdogo (mnato).

Sababu inayowapelekea kushindwa kuamua mazoezi ya kuufanyia uke wao. Leo nitakuletea njia rahisi za kujua kama uke wako ni mpana au mnato.

Kama unaweza kuingiza ukeni vidole vyako vyote vitatu bila tatizo basi hiyo ni dalili ya kuwa na uke mpana

Kutokwa na haja ndogo bila kujitambua pia ni dalili mojawapo ya uke mpana, haja ndogo hiyo hutokaogo bila mwanamke kutambua.

Kama mpenzi wako analalamika kuwa humlidhishi na kwamba uke wako ni mpana basi ujue una uke mpana

Kama hulidhiki kitandani na unapata shida sana kufika kileleni basi unaweza kuwa na tatizo la uke mpana.

There is a trend of making the Uke more outwardly emotional than the Seme; even an angsty Uke will be more vocal in his angst than an angsty Seme who will just hide it all behind a stoic mask, and emotionless Ukes are relatively uncommon. This is due in large part to the fact that Seme/Uke relationships customarily exhibit a frequently flustered Uke – something much more difficult to pull off if the Uke is the stoic type.

Additionally, the Uke is almost always the more inexperienced one of the pair, if not an outright

There is also the issue of the hyper-feminization of the uke. I am not a fan of trap or characters that are so ambiguous that the other characters can’t tell it is a guy. We want two men for a reason, right? It is like we can’t make up our minds, take out the treacherous female body, but leave all the most undesirable stereotypes.

Yes, as you can tell, this is a topic I’m rather passionate about. I agree that when the uke is made to conform to feminine gender norms/stereotypes, suddenly I feel like I’ve almost slipped back into shoujo (although, I do still prefer a feminized-uke-yaoi to actual shoujo…). I want my yaoi to be yaoi, not a thinly veiled heterosexual romance. But I get the feeling that the industry thinks that either fujoshi want or should want to keep the heterosexual gender roles, even if the couple is supposedly malexmale. So disappointing. *sigh*

I would like to agree, but it probably varies culture to culture, depending on what gendered meanings they assign to different sex acts. If you see taking the uke/passive/receiver role in sex as being opposed to who you are as a man, you aren’t going to want to switch. You’re going to want to take the seme’s role and find a man who’s comfortable taking the feminized role.